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The Steady Stopwatch that lost Count.

Ever woken up in the middle of the night, and just sat there, in pitch black darkness, wondering where you life is headed?

Well, I cannot spend my whole entire youth grovelling over something that this accursed existence cannot give. There are instances where I have thought of where comfort zones and taking the over-hyped "risks" come into play. A thin line so to say. sadness brims the heart that melts from a simple resistance. There are things that I cannot change; there are those that I can flip with a blink and voila, they are gone, albeit with minimal or no effort at all. I can choose to smile, or frown, to laugh or cry, or even to love or hate, bad or good; and so forth and so on, you catch my drift.

One thing though, you are the person that you are, some things you cannot change, they are part and parcel of your existence. Other things can be altered to fit your environment and enhance your daily dos and don'ts. I choose to smile, to love: to always make someone's life a better place. Anger might be involved, but it doesn't stay there forever; for there is no goodness in mixing evil and good. Choose a path and follow it, for a better world. 

My path is well laid out in-front of me. I understand what I need to do to achieve a comfortable pace in this journey of life. Well, the path so far is strewn with lots of thorns, frustrations, lose, joy, tears, achievements, good and bad people, but still; I choose to see the good in that path. I don't hate, I don't judge, for whatever a person is made of, we can only choose the good or the evil side. 

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