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Walking the Talk.

So when it comes to mending tears and walking talks, the real task takes shape. How about fulfilling your day with a nice word to your friend, neighbor or even to yourself? Courage to transform dreams into reality and a bit of self-esteem to tell yourself that you are going to make it! Here is a bit of what I always say to myself when I am up to a task, "Make it work! Make it work oy oy oy"! Regardless of the rumbling feel in your stomach and that quick-to-notice anxious face, you going to make it. Someone once said, " If someone offers you a wonderful opportunity, and you don't have the slightest inkling on how to go about it, TAKE IT!!, then learn how to do it later!!" As you make your daily living this August, take a step and be kind. Forgive when wronged ,  apologize when in fault, smile because you never know, you might have just made someone's day. Lend a hand and don't forget to love yourself, you are the source and with it comes great fruit.

Manning Up Craze. Where many go wrong.

There is a misconception that we as humans, make when getting into relationships; mutual or not. We all think it’s all about a bed of roses, bright alleys filled with cupid’s melodies and the weirdest of all, and a 24hr love merry-go-round with no conundrums. Well, that’s a myth, viable only in dreamland. A closer examination to what these unions really mean, impact and affect human life is outrageously immense. Over time, thousands of literal heads, think-tanks, and even those without the slightest inkling of what relationships are, have contributed into this complex realm. I call it so, because it is a daunting task to define what it really is.  Everyone is entitled to their own personal view, I too have mine, and if it comes out odd and obnoxious, well, it’s my opinion. I am simply having my cake, and sharing it. From time immemorial, the world has brandished the human male species as a tough lot. To break it down, we live and grow in societies that expect man to man-up lite